Well It has been about five days since I sold a particular item. I have contacted the buyer a few times as suggested by my friends here (thanks for all your advice) And then today I received this

I DO APOLOGISE BUT IVE BEEN AWAY ON HOLIDAY AND WASN'T AWARE THAT A CERTAIN MEMBER OF MY FAMILY BIDDED FOR THESE. ERM IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO RELIST THEM. IM SO SORRY ABOUT THIS. THANKS

Boo Hiss!
So I have started the unpaid proceedings mostly because I don't want to be charged for a non sale. I have also left a negative feedback. Which will probably mean I will get one in return, Ebay is turning bitter at the moment