OK. Today is our twelve year anniversary. We have just been having a little intimate celebration when my OH has a phone call from her brother. His wife is seriuosly ill in Hospital with Cancer and may not make it.

My OH is devastated

I would like to thank all of you that commented on my 'Tenacious CJ and the list of zero deviation' post about me getting a few surprises. I have now taken your dvice and deviated from the list. ON the list it has described in great detail a pair of shoes that she wanted. But on your suggestions to get her a surprise, I have chosen a different pair that I think look nicer.

Thanks guys